Sorry to be a downer. But I have to vent a bit somewhre
Today we made the decision to keep Ma in bed for the rest of her time. It was just too hard for my sister to move her anymore during the night when she had to go to the bathroom etc. It was hard for the two of us too.
It’s really heartbreaking to watch the decline of someone you’ve know your entire life. I know some of you know this firsthand. You think you’re prepared for all this but you aren’t. You never can be.
We are nearing the end I think. I can’t imagine it will be much longer. When it is over there will be a mass as she was Catholic born and raised. I’ll let you know.
I will write stuff as I can. But please know I appreciate all of you sticking with me and your support.
You are all phenomenal.
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12 responses to “Another Difficult Day”
Love you hon. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and sending you everything I can
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thank you ❤
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Our hearts are with you. And you absolutely HAVE to make that decision. She could be injured further and even injure you or the family in moving her that way. It probably causes her more pain to be moved up and down, too.
We’re here. We’re gonna be here all along You do what you need to do. We’ll be here in the future, too.
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Yeah I DO think it was for the best for everyone, her included, but damn it was hard. 😦
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❤
Big hugs
I'm so sorry you are going through this
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thank you ❤
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My thoughts are with you and your family. Much love to all of you
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thank you connie
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A difficult time to be sure, thoughts are with you and your family.
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thank you ❤
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I agree with everything j said above. You have to think what’s best for your Mom and your family. I feel that moving her out of bed is not beneficial for her at this point, only making her uncomfortable.
You all need love and peace. Sending both your way.
You have our support through this and at all times! 💕
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thank you, I very much appreciate that
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