My brother did pass away last night, so there will be a delay updating the blog story, but I should be back to writing and scheduling more for next week.
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Spirk (with a small dose of Pinto) 
September 14, 2023 at 8:34 am
Big big hugs. Love to you and your family.
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September 14, 2023 at 8:40 am
thank you it’s especially sad for their kids, as their mother passed just 4 months ago 😦
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September 14, 2023 at 12:31 pm
Jesus ! It seems that as you get older, Life takes more than it gives….My condolences.
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September 14, 2023 at 1:06 pm
Yes it definitely knows how to kick you where you are down
thank you
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September 14, 2023 at 8:39 am
From what little I’ve read from you, I know there is great heartache and sadness there. My heart is with you and your family. We can never know the walk of another, much less know how they feel. I’m a pretty empathetic person, but I was totally wrong in my expectations of how I would feel when each of my family members died. And I’m the only one left now of the 4 of us. My own feelings shock me every day.
So my only advice is to let yourself feel every single thought and emotion that comes to you and know they’re all completely normal.
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September 14, 2023 at 8:43 am
This is of course the first of us of the children of our parents who has passed. My brother was 65, too young, but he beat up his body with his addiction and it’s incredibly sad. I choose to remember the older brother of my youth rather than what he had become and I just hope he is at peace now where his last few years he had no peace at all
And thank you, your advice is very good
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September 14, 2023 at 9:13 am
I lost my brother last year, so I won’t say I know what you are going through but I can empathise with some of the emotions. Mine had been through a lot in life, changed as a person from the older brother I knew as a child and I struggled to reconcile that as a an adult. It made his passing hard as I spent a lot of time wondering if I could have reached out more, been more understanding – all those questions. Death and grief are complicated buggers and things take time. So lots of self care and hugs to you. And if you ever want to talk just let me know – sometimes a random not-so-quite stranger can be useful, other times not!
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September 14, 2023 at 9:19 am
Thank you Elouesa, that pretty much describes my situation with my older brother too so yes it does seem like you are very familiar with it
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September 14, 2023 at 12:22 pm
Sending love and support to you and your family!
❤️
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September 14, 2023 at 1:01 pm
Big hugs. Im sorry for your loss ❤️
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September 14, 2023 at 1:07 pm
thank you, I appreciate it
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September 14, 2023 at 2:01 pm
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Allow yourself to grieve. But try to hold on to the happier memories that you have of your brother.
❤️💚😘🖖
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September 14, 2023 at 2:09 pm
thank you evening
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September 14, 2023 at 3:38 pm
🤗 Hugs to you!
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September 16, 2023 at 4:09 pm
Prayers for you and your family. It’s always so hard for those left behind, but as you said, you can rejoice that he is finally free at last 🙂
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September 19, 2023 at 6:34 am
thank you ❤
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