Hi Guys

My brother did pass away last night, so there will be a delay updating the blog story, but I should be back to writing and scheduling more for next week.

thank you for your support

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16 responses to “Hi Guys”

  1. Kristbethke Avatar

    Big big hugs. Love to you and your family.

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    1. ivansfanfiction Avatar
      ivansfanfiction

      thank you it’s especially sad for their kids, as their mother passed just 4 months ago 😦

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      1. Celestial1 Avatar
        Celestial1

        Jesus ! It seems that as you get older, Life takes more than it gives….My condolences.

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      2. ivansfanfiction Avatar
        ivansfanfiction

        Yes it definitely knows how to kick you where you are down
        thank you

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  2. j Avatar
    j

    From what little I’ve read from you, I know there is great heartache and sadness there. My heart is with you and your family. We can never know the walk of another, much less know how they feel. I’m a pretty empathetic person, but I was totally wrong in my expectations of how I would feel when each of my family members died. And I’m the only one left now of the 4 of us. My own feelings shock me every day.
    So my only advice is to let yourself feel every single thought and emotion that comes to you and know they’re all completely normal.

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    1. ivansfanfiction Avatar
      ivansfanfiction

      This is of course the first of us of the children of our parents who has passed. My brother was 65, too young, but he beat up his body with his addiction and it’s incredibly sad. I choose to remember the older brother of my youth rather than what he had become and I just hope he is at peace now where his last few years he had no peace at all

      And thank you, your advice is very good

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  3. Elouesa Avatar
    Elouesa

    I lost my brother last year, so I won’t say I know what you are going through but I can empathise with some of the emotions. Mine had been through a lot in life, changed as a person from the older brother I knew as a child and I struggled to reconcile that as a an adult. It made his passing hard as I spent a lot of time wondering if I could have reached out more, been more understanding – all those questions. Death and grief are complicated buggers and things take time. So lots of self care and hugs to you. And if you ever want to talk just let me know – sometimes a random not-so-quite stranger can be useful, other times not!

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    1. ivansfanfiction Avatar
      ivansfanfiction

      Thank you Elouesa, that pretty much describes my situation with my older brother too so yes it does seem like you are very familiar with it

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  4. eveningstar10 Avatar
    eveningstar10

    Sending love and support to you and your family!
    ❤️

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  5. Jay Avatar
    Jay

    Big hugs. Im sorry for your loss ❤️

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    1. ivansfanfiction Avatar
      ivansfanfiction

      thank you, I appreciate it

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  6. eveningstar10 Avatar
    eveningstar10

    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Allow yourself to grieve. But try to hold on to the happier memories that you have of your brother.
    ❤️💚😘🖖

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    1. ivansfanfiction Avatar
      ivansfanfiction

      thank you evening

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  7. eveningstar10 Avatar

    🤗 Hugs to you!

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  8. B Avatar
    B

    Prayers for you and your family. It’s always so hard for those left behind, but as you said, you can rejoice that he is finally free at last 🙂

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    1. ivansfanfiction Avatar
      ivansfanfiction

      thank you ❤

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